Forcing Your Good Taste on Others
Everyone thinks they are funny and everyone thinks they have good taste. Many of these people are mistaken (present company excluded, obviously). The holidays are a perfect showcase for both of these subjective qualities to shine.
Have you ever been given a novelty gift that fell flat? “Thanks for the embroidered kitchen towel that pokes fun at my burgeoning alcoholism, Becky. It’s really going to come in handy for mopping up all those silly wine spills. Thanks, girl.” On the other hand, the turd shaped piggy bank you gifted your brother—hilarious. It’s a matter of taste. You have to know your audience.
What do you do when shopping for someone whose aesthetic tastes do not align with yours? Well, you can always try giving them more of the thing they like. Aunt Sue is into pant suits, maybe she’d like a new St. John knit? Your mom’s husband is really keen on a camouflage lifestyle, so why not get him something that blends into his attire? As I see it, you can be a part of the problem, or you can choose to be a part of the solution. When in doubt, go ahead and force your good taste on the ones you love.
If for any reason you find yourself doubting your personal taste, then perhaps this is not the solution for you. Perhaps it is better to stuff those stockings with some gift cards. However, if you think it’s time to upgrade your boyfriend’s shoe game, by all means, please do. Fifty-two pairs of Jordans doth not equal a dress shoe. I’m just saying, some people in your life may need an intervention. You don’t need to involve anyone else but you, them, and maybe a trusted sales associate. But trust your gut. Not everyone is as astute as you. Follow your heart, and throw away your budget, cause good taste doesn’t come cheap, but you can’t put a price on a Merry Christmas.
Ho, Ho, Ho, RenFluencers